Today has been my third straight Thanksgiving Day away from Indiana, where I spent the first twenty-five years of my life. Needless to say, being away from my family during the holidays has not been easy. Just about every holiday for twenty-five years was spent with my parents, brothers, and sisters. Now, Mindy and I are constantly thinking about new traditions we can begin with our family.

Below are just a couple reasons why I believe that this has been and will be helpful for our family:

1. It allows my kids to look forward to specific things on specific holidays.

When I was growing up, it seemed like we always went to my uncle and aunt’s house outside Indianapolis. I remember looking forward to that knowing I would see my cousins. I think setting up traditions gives your children certain things to look forward to.

2. It forces me to be the leader of my family.

While living in Indiana, all I had to say was, “we are going to Dad and Mom’s house” and that was it. Being in Brooklyn, has forced me to begin new traditions and actually think about what my family needs. It has helped me to grow and take leadership of my family.

Two quick thoughts on this Thanksgiving Day about family traditions. Thanks for taking time to read. Have a great day with your family!